6 Tips to Educate Children Who Have Difficulty Relenting, Want to Win Alone - The World of Learning Children

Many parents lose patience when facing their children who want to win on their own and do not want to give up. When he is at odds with others, it is very difficult to apologize, he always tries to find his own justification. In a position that has been cornered, he will like to find excuses. I, Brother Zepe, will give tips in dealing with and educating children who have this trait.

Don't worry, stay patient, and keep your cool heart.

When this child's wishes are not fulfilled, he will begin to threaten. Stick to your stance, if what you do is good and for the good of the Child. When your child starts crying out loud, be patient. Don't show a negative reaction. Keep your emotions calm. Let your child cry without you needing to show a panicked face or give an expression of mercy.

Meekness will bring peace.

Stay soft. Don't have harsh words coming out of your mouth. Show your child that what you're doing is for the good of your child. Maybe your child won't understand what you're doing at the time. But the most important lesson a child receives at the time is that not all desires can be fulfilled by whining. When you can be constant in doing this, your child will have a stronger mentality. Explain to your child that whining or crying is not the best thing to ask for something. So that we can learn to be patient and meek parents, we can follow the tips "How to Have a Patient Heart In Educating Early Childhood"

Children need explanation, not scolding or anger.

Explain to your child that not all the things that make him happy are good things and should be done. Explain to your child the positives and negatives of their requests. Don't let your advice just stop at prohibition, without explaining the reason why it shouldn't vote for it. One example of a case that often occurs is the number of children who like to play games do not know the time. They play games all day, so forget the bath schedule or do other activities. If you lack the material in explaining to your child about the problem you forbid the child to do something, look for material from the internet. Usually their answer is in accordance with what is written on the internet.

The importance of reconciliation in order for good relations to return

When he does not get what he wants, maybe the child will feel disappointed. As a parent, when the child has started to calm down, you can approach the child and give good advice to the child. Convince your child that what you are doing is for the good of the child. If your child wants to obey what you want, you can take your child for a walk, or buy him something he likes. This process will cure the disappointment of the child that may still remain in his heart.

After reconciliation, you can invite your child to evaluate the rules that have been applied. Motivate children to stick to the rules that have been mutually agreed (read also: Tips to Make and Apply Rules For Children, So that Children Do Not Feel Depressed)

Being a parent who can set an example

Children will be easily shaped by those closest to them and their environment. Usually the role of parents will be very important in this regard. If your child has grown into a child who wants to win on his own, try to reflect for a moment, who knows who is the one who teaches it unconsciously. If you feel, immediately change your bad habits, and become a better person.

The beauty of sharing needs to be taught early on.

Let's take a look at the lyrics to the following song from Laluna. The song is titled "Beautiful Sharing":
How wonderful when we give, how delicious it feels, the moments we share

Find beautiful happy faces beaming. Giving peace of heart... This happiness will not be bought, sincerely...

How wonderful it is to share. It makes life more meaningful. Don't be afraid to give. It won't end if you share. This world will not be eternal. What we have. Won't be brought home later

It's beautiful not the lyrics of the song. We can teach children about the beauty of sharing through songs. In addition to song media, there are also fairy tales, movies, spiritual stories, stories of famous figures who like to share, and others. By giving sharing lessons about the beauty of sharing, children will also form into empathetic individuals. Empathetic children will always think about the feelings of others when in a dispute.

One way to overcome children who want to win alone is to increase concern for others. Do more good, especially when with your child. Invite children to visit orphanages and other social institutions. The more the child cares about each other, the selfish nature of the child will continue to decrease. So that he not only follows emotions, but can be patient and willing to give up.

In order for Indonesian children to have good character, it would be better if you, as a parent, provide character education supplements with attractive media. One of them is with an interactive fairy tale. Please download the FREE interactive children's story collection, RIRI, by clicking on the image below:

I am one of the writers on this portal, an education practitioner and child songwriter. Greetings to education... Greetings to the children's song... See all the articles written by Kak Zepe