Tips for Educating Children

When you think are you an exemplary parent? So your account, of course I am an exemplary parent to my child. Where there is a "tiger that eats its own cubs", or maybe we might harm our own children. Parents always try to give their best for their children. In fact, many parents make mistakes in educating their children.

Here are some mistakes you may not be aware of in educating your child:

According to Professor Robert Billingham, Human Development and FamilyStudies – Indiana University, "Children get too much out of the family, and that's a tragedy that parents should be concerned about." Well now you know, how to do it, for example if your child is in day care or school, try to visit it regularly and unplanned. If your staffing is reduced, the solution is to find another daycare. Don't let your child travel alone. Your child needs attention.

According to psychologist Charles Fay, Ph.D. "Many parents are too tired to give attention – tend to ignore what their child reveals", for example Aisyah came home with inert eyes, generally parents then immediately responded to it excessively, suspected the child was exposed to a ball, or fighting with her friend. In fact, parents don't know what's going on until their own child tells them.

According to Billingham, parents should let children do the same, let children learn from mistakes so as not to repeat the same mistakes. Help your child to solve his or her own problems, but don't take advantage of your interests.

According to Judy Haire, "many parents spend 100 km per hour drying hair, rather than spending an hour with their child". Children need their own time to feel boredom, because it will trigger children to bring out the creativity of growing.

According to psychiatrist Sara B. Miller, Ph.D., the most destructive behavior is "fighting" in front of the child. When parents fight in front of their children, especially boys, the result is an insensitive adult male candidate who cannot relate to women in a healthy way. Parents should warm up discussions between them, without children around them. It's only natural that parents have different opinions but try without peace. Don't create feelings of insecurity and fear in your child.

Children need to feel that their parents are playing a role. Don't let them beg and whine into a powerful weapon to get what they want. Parents must be firm and authoritative in front of the children.

According to Lisa Balch, a mother of two, "just do it according to your heart and let it flow without ignoring the debilitating voices around it. I learned a lot that parents should have a keen sensitivity about things."

According to Neilsen Media Research, American children aged 2-11 years watch 3 hours and 22 minutes of TV broadcasts a day. Watching television will make children lazy to learn. Parents tend to let children linger in front of the TV rather than interfere with parental activities. Parents are highly unlikely to be able to filter out the influx of unedifying negative ads.

9. Everything Is Measured By Matter

According to Louis Hodgson, mother of 4 children and grandmother of 6 grandchildren, "children now have many things to collect". It is not wrong to pamper children with toys and luxurious holidays. But what should be realized is that your child needs quality time with their parents. They tend to want to be heard rather than given something and silenced.

Some parents are sometimes more supportive of the child and take sides while vilifying their partner in front of the child. They will lose perception and tend to be patterned to be biased. Spend at least 10 minutes with your child. And make sure you know when you're with your parents is a time that can't be interrupted.