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All parents want the best for their children.

REPUBLIKA.CO.ID, pedagogy is like a function in mathematics, the art of educating as its domain and the characteristics of children as codomainnya. Some domains can be ripped to kodomain, but some are not. The art of educating is like that, not all pedagogically suitable and can be applied to every child.

The A way may be successfully applied to child A, but it's not necessarily successful in child B. In my opinion, it's because children are abstract and unique. That's why parents have their own way of guiding their children.

When there are five children who are running fast, each parent has a different way of acting. The parents of the first child said, "Come on, slow down!" The first parent does not stop the child's activity, only reduces it.

The parents of the two children said, "Ouch! Don't run away, fall!"  The second parent was worried.
The parents of the third child were silent. It's not that he just wants his son to know what it's like to fall. He wants children to gain experience.

The parents of the four-year-old said, "Run away!" A command that is contrary to what he really wants.

The parents of the five said, "Be careful, later on." The parents told their children to pay more attention to their surroundings.

Of the five parents, do you think the parents of the child to how good? If your answer is "all good", we agree. The character of the child is different, some are commemorated once twice directly according to, there are also those that although commemorated many times but still cannot be obeyed.

This is what gives birth to the diversity of parents' attitudes, because parents are the ones who understand the character of their children the most. That's great old people are.

If parents are able to understand the character of the child well, they can also choose the right attitude in the face of their child's behavior. Even so, educating by threatening, snapping, or even physical play is not justified. Not! More precisely, it will never be allowed.

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