10 Tips to Educate Boys to Appreciate Girls More

Fimela.com, Jakarta Parenting and educating children is definitely not an easy thing. Both as teachers and parents, educating children requires sufficient knowledge. Educating boys and girls is always a challenge of its own.

This time we will talk about educating boys to be able to appreciate girls more. Training this respect needs to be done since childhood so that when a boy is old he can grow into a good person and can treat women well as well. Ruswandi Y. Karlsen, an early childhood educator, shared information on how to educate boys to respect girls. It is based on how children in Norway who start kindergarten at the age of one are educated by emphasizing the importance of respect. Tips for Boys to Have More Respect for Girls

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1. Male teachers start from themselves, which is to respect female teachers.

2. Children always ask permission when they want to hug or kiss another child. You must understand if you are rejected.

3. Anyone has feelings. Boys can also cry, if it helps calm the soul or overflows its expression. It's a human thing.

4. Male students aged four years and above began learning to work with female students to help cut vegetables and fruit, clean tables, sweep floors, and put laundry into kindergarten laundry. All this is done under the supervision of the teacher.

5. Children have the right to be friends with anyone. This will educate them about democracy, equality, caring, cooperation, and supportive attitudes that are very important when growing up and have a partner or wife so that they set a good example to the baby later.

6. Teachers and parents are child role models on how to speak and be polite. Children have good habits of imitating. Then point this to the right thing.

7. Educate and exemplify empathy, as well as the effects if he treats others well or badly. And, ask his opinion.

8. Do not smile or be groomed when correcting inappropriate child treatment, so that they know that this is a seris thing. Eye contact is mandatory and it is highly recommended to crouch down to the level of the child's eyes so that communication goes well.

9. Boys of elementary-junior high school age begin to be taught that appreciating or being gentle to women will not diminish their masculine side. Cooperate with parents at home so that children are kept away from entertainment that may be able to degrade women, such as lyrics on songs or pornography.

10. Reprimand directly if the child starts calling a friend or other person with an inappropriate call. Make sure there is no tolerance to make anyone an object of improper deference. Children are also taught to report if there is bullying or bullying.

Educating children is a big responsibility. Hopefully this information from Ruswandi Y. Karlsen can add to our knowledge and insight in educating boys to grow into a person who values women more.