8 Tips for Educating Girls

What if Mums and Dads had two or more daughters? This means, Mums have to find the right parenting pattern so that little mums girls grow up caring and affectionate with each other. Coinciding with Sisters' Day on August 4, check out the tips on creating a close sister relationship like a best friend! Also Read: Don't Be Ashamed to Learn to Be a Good Parent

Instill empathy between brother and sister

In a sibling relationship, the high empathy in the brother towards the brother and vice versa is very necessary to be nurtured. Reporting from askdrsears.com, the lack of empathy among siblings, can trigger children to grow into sociopathic people.

Encourage children to do good to their brothers, as they would like to be treated by others. By teaching it, they grow into thinking first before treating others. Give praise fairly.

It's important for Mums and Dads to provide positive support to children to build confidence. The easiest most effective way to make your child confident is to give compliments to children fairly. Give proper praise to each girl based on the commendable actions performed and their respective advantages. Avoid labeling every child.

Avoid calling your brother 'the smart' or the younger brother with 'the beautiful'. Labels given by parents in childhood in fact often have an impact on the child until he or she is an adult. The image that Mums and Dads attach to him will influence his behavior and have an impact on his growth and development. Read also: Girls are equal to boys Don't compare children

This is the main cause of the appearance of inferior feelings in children, thus encouraging the emergence of unwanted behavior between brother and sister. Therefore, never compare brother and sister. Every child wants to look special in the eyes of parents for every achievement he or she performs.

Mums, throughout children's lives, there will always be situations that make them feel compared. For example, in school, in extracurricular activities, even in the office when he later worked. Make your family the only environment that makes them feel safe from judgments that seem condescending. Avoid comments that immediately undermine your child's confidence such as, "Why the hell can't you have good grades like big brother?" Interfere only when necessary

There are no brothers and sisters who don't fight. However, that doesn't mean Mums and Dads should always interfere. Parents should be able to distinguish when the time needs to be a "referee" and when the time is enough to be a "supervisor" until the end of the fight.

With this principle, it just means mums give them a message to solve their own problems. Conversely, if they can't reconcile, the parents will take over the situation and have consequences.

Well, how to handle the argumenting session between brother and sister? Calm them down by listening to explanations from both sides. This will make the child feel equally heard and appreciated his point of view. Mums and Dads must learn to break up without fattening one-party-leaning defence opinions.

Research shows that older siblings who have poor relationships and without parental guidance will grow up to be difficult to establish good relationships with friends and co-workers when they grow up. The more often they fight, the more likely they are to fight as they grow up. You don't have to buy the same thing.

Generally, parents take the initiative to buy children the same goods to prevent arguments. The need between brother and sister is not the same. Especially if their age range is far enough.

Children tend to have their own thoughts about fair concepts. In fact, the concept of equals cannot be applied just like that. Mums and Dads should as early as possible apply the concept fairly, which means it suits your abilities and needs. Instead, this method is expected to make children grow into realistic figures and not demanding on parents.

For example, Mums felt it was time to buy shoes for her sister. If you ask, "Why did you buy shoes, and I didn't?" Mums could reply, "Because younger brother has just been able to walk and he needs a pair of shoes. Your shoes are still good. Later when it is damaged, then we buy again, brother." Limit the habit of bequeathing old items belonging to older brothers

There is nothing wrong if occasionally Mums and Dads take the initiative to give old items belonging to the brother to the sister for reasons of savings. However, limit this desire. Do not let the impressed sister can only use "used" items belonging to your brother. Especially if the two little mums have different tastes, interests, and appearances. Become a favorite of Mums and Dads every day

Children are equally flesh-blood from Mums and Dads, but each of them definitely has its advantages and disadvantages. Therefore, if your brother or sister asks who Mums and Dads prefer than them, then make it a habit to answer, "Mums and Dads both love you in a special way."

Say that the comparison of the affections of Mums and Dads is like sunlight. Sharing the sunshine in no way makes any of them lack its luster. Try not to mention who is the best among them. Kids don't expect Mums and Dads to say who's better. They just provoked the atmosphere to convince how the parents felt towards them.

It's down to the kids that friends must come and go, but the bond of brother and sister is forever. Embrace all the colors of the characters within them. That way, Mums and Dads definitely find a comfortable parenting style to teach you the importance of having a harmonious relationship as brother and sister. (TA/AS) Also Read: Unique Stories of ChildCare from Around the World