Tips for Educating Children

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One of the deeds that has never been interrupted even though we have left this world is the "sholeh boy". The prayer of the child is also one of the prayers that God willing granted by Him. How do we educate our children to be beautiful children? Educate him in an Islamic way, such as some of the following tips:

Get used to our children waking up at dawn. Example: from an early age, invite him to pray shubuh together or congregation in the mosque.
Give him an islamic environment and education. Example: from an early age follow our children in landfill (Qur'anic Education Park), take courses in mosques, etc.
Set an example, not just a selfish order. Example: don't just tell him to learn to pray or pray, but we don't do it ourselves.
Invite your child to visit the mosque regularly. Example: routinely, invite our children to pray in the mosque.
Introduce the aurat limit early on. Example: if from an early age we get used to our daughters using hijab, then as an adult she will actually feel uncomfortable if showing her aurat.
Get used to our children always bringing prayer equipment, especially for girls.
Minimize our children in listening to non-Islamic music. Instead, maximize our children to hear verses of the Qur'an or nasyid.
Make a schedule to watch TV and accompany children when watching. Keep children away from spectacles that do not contain educational elements, such as: soap operas, horror movies, whiny movies, and others.
Teach Islamic values directly. Convey the values of Islam that we master to our children. It would be better if it was in the form of an interesting story.
Be a loyal friend to him. Make it convenient to make us the main resting place so that we will always know the problem.
Create a warm and harmonious atmosphere in the family. If the family no longer feels warm to him, the child will look for relief elsewhere.
Do all of the above tips wisely, patiently and consistently. Never use violence and avoid emotional attitudes that can hurt you.
Hopefully these tips can help us become good parents to our child and invite him together into His eternal paradise. Aamiin.

Reference:
"If a man dies, then all his practices are cut off, except from three things: alms jariyah (which flows his reward), knowledge that is utilized, and children who pray for good for him" [HR. Muslims in the Book of Al-Washiyyah (4199)]

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